Department of Aliveness · Bureau no. 01

● Open · Ogden, Utah

● Open · Ogden, Utah

Est. 2024

The Living Room · An invitation

The Living Room · An invitation

The Living Room · An invitation

Seats open

Seats open

Seats open

A sofa with a candle in warm afternoon light

Once a month · on video

The Living Room

A sofa with a candle in warm afternoon light

Once a month · on video

The Living Room

A sofa with a candle in warm afternoon light

Once a month · on video

The Living Room

An hour of conversation about living after everything shifted, and while plenty is still shifting.

An hour of conversation about living after everything shifted, and while plenty is still shifting.

An hour of conversation about living after everything shifted, and while plenty is still shifting.

Monthly

Monthly

Monthly

One hour

One hour

One hour

Up to 20 people

Up to 20 people

Up to 20 people

$29

$29

$29

Most places you can take what’s going on want to do something with it.

Most places you can take what’s going on want to do something with it.

Most places you can take what’s going on want to do something with it.

Fix it. Reframe it. Turn it into a lesson or a plan. Sometimes that helps. Often what you actually needed was for someone to hear it and let it stand.

Fix it. Reframe it. Turn it into a lesson or a plan. Sometimes that helps. Often what you actually needed was for someone to hear it and let it stand.

Fix it. Reframe it. Turn it into a lesson or a plan. Sometimes that helps. Often what you actually needed was for someone to hear it and let it stand.

The Living Room is an hour for that. Up to twenty people on video, once a month. You can speak or you can simply listen. Either way, you’re welcomed and witnessed.

The Living Room is an hour for that. Up to twenty people on video, once a month. You can speak or you can simply listen. Either way, you’re welcomed and witnessed.

The Living Room is an hour for that. Up to twenty people on video, once a month. You can speak or you can simply listen. Either way, you’re welcomed and witnessed.

Some people arrive when the hard part is over and nothing has taken its place yet. Some arrive in the middle of it, with the feelings right at the surface. Both belong in the same room.

Some people arrive when the hard part is over and nothing has taken its place yet. Some arrive in the middle of it, with the feelings right at the surface. Both belong in the same room.

Some people arrive when the hard part is over and nothing has taken its place yet. Some arrive in the middle of it, with the feelings right at the surface. Both belong in the same room.

And the people you meet don’t have to stay in the hour.

And the people you meet don’t have to stay in the hour.

And the people you meet don’t have to stay in the hour.

Each month has a small anchor — a season, a question — so the hour has somewhere to start. It’s a doorway, not a syllabus. Bring whatever is actually true.

Each month has a small anchor — a season, a question — so the hour has somewhere to start. It’s a doorway, not a syllabus. Bring whatever is actually true.

Each month has a small anchor — a season, a question — so the hour has somewhere to start. It’s a doorway, not a syllabus. Bring whatever is actually true.

The form

What the Living Room is

What the Living Room is

What the Living Room is

A live gathering, once a month, on video. No more than twenty people. One hour, start to finish.

A live gathering, once a month, on video. No more than twenty people. One hour, start to finish.

A live gathering, once a month, on video. No more than twenty people. One hour, start to finish.

I facilitate, which means I hold the shape of the hour so you don’t have to. There is no curriculum and no slide deck. Some people talk. Some people keep their camera on and say nothing. Both are a complete way to be there.

I facilitate, which means I hold the shape of the hour so you don’t have to. There is no curriculum and no slide deck. Some people talk. Some people keep their camera on and say nothing. Both are a complete way to be there.

I facilitate, which means I hold the shape of the hour so you don’t have to. There is no curriculum and no slide deck. Some people talk. Some people keep their camera on and say nothing. Both are a complete way to be there.

Someone on a sofa with a laptop

What to expect

What the hour feels like

What the hour feels like

What the hour feels like

It starts on time and it ends on time. I open with the month’s anchor — a question, a passage, a scene. Then the room opens.

It starts on time and it ends on time. I open with the month’s anchor — a question, a passage, a scene. Then the room opens.

It starts on time and it ends on time. I open with the month’s anchor — a question, a passage, a scene. Then the room opens.

People say things they have not said to anyone. Nobody rushes in to fix it. That restraint is the entire design, and it is the part people tell me they have not experienced anywhere else.

People say things they have not said to anyone. Nobody rushes in to fix it. That restraint is the entire design, and it is the part people tell me they have not experienced anywhere else.

People say things they have not said to anyone. Nobody rushes in to fix it. That restraint is the entire design, and it is the part people tell me they have not experienced anywhere else.

It is quieter than you expect. Sometimes it is funny. Nobody is asked to perform a breakthrough.

It is quieter than you expect. Sometimes it is funny. Nobody is asked to perform a breakthrough.

It is quieter than you expect. Sometimes it is funny. Nobody is asked to perform a breakthrough.

Fit

Who tends to come

Who tends to come

Who tends to come

You finished the hard part and nobody handed you a next self.

You finished the hard part and nobody handed you a next self.

You finished the hard part and nobody handed you a next self.

You are in the middle of it, and the feelings are right at the surface.

You are the person other people come to, and you have nowhere to take your own.

You are the person other people come to, and you have nowhere to take your own.

You are the person other people come to, and you have nowhere to take your own.

You have said “I’m good, honestly” more times this year than you meant it.

You have said “I’m good, honestly” more times this year than you meant it.

You have said “I’m good, honestly” more times this year than you meant it.

You have read plenty about this and would rather be in a room with it.

You have read plenty about this and would rather be in a room with it.

You have read plenty about this and would rather be in a room with it.

Alexander Lovell

The Living Room is held by Alexander Lovell — researcher, writer, and the whole of the Department of Aliveness, which operates out of Ogden, Utah.

The Living Room is held by Alexander Lovell — researcher, writer, and the whole of the Department of Aliveness, which operates out of Ogden, Utah.

The Living Room is held by Alexander Lovell — researcher, writer, and the whole of the Department of Aliveness, which operates out of Ogden, Utah.